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50 years ago the label nerd was first applied to anyone boring, socially awkward or uncool. They were just a little bit off, fair game for exclusion and mockery. By the 80s the nerd was becoming more defined, but no less disdained. You should go for these cute nerdy guys because they dont believe in show off or can put on a few pounds or wear sweatpants all day. So there is no need to be sexy the entire day if you are dating a nerdy guy. Even if you manage to get a shy guy to like you and score a date with him, dont expect him to take the lead by making all the plans. A shy guy will lean on you and ask you where you would prefer to go as opposed to an extrovert who will suggest a great place for a date. Speaking as a shy guy i tend to assume that girls are not interested in me. It can be hard to tell if a girl is just being friendly or if shes wants me to ask her out. Do shy nerdy guys, date outgoing girls? - girlsaskguys 4 reasons the nerdy guy is the best kind of guy to date. By kelsey rae nerds are generally shy and lack confidence around women. The good thing with guy shyness is that it wears off on specific situations. A shy man could never ever become daring enough to approach women in general, but he can ultimately grow comfortable with a girlfriend or spouse. Some nerdy guys may be unaccustomed to having women flirt with them, so it may take a direct comment to get the message across. Nerdy guys are sometimes the target of unwarranted negative jokes in social settings, so the guy you approach may be wary. Ive been dating a nerdy guy four a year and a half now and hes the best person ever. As i read each point above, it made me realize just how amazing he really is! I never saw myself with this kind of guy but i took a chance with him and im glad i did. Hes so smart and i love that he can teach me just as many things as i can teach him. Dating advice is outside the scope of this site, with this article being a semi-exception. Over the years several women have written me to tell me reading this site has helped them understand the actions of a shy guy they were pursuing. With that in mind i thought id try to be even more helpful and write a whole article outlining what its like to be a man whos really shy and inexperienced. dating shy, nerdy guy no kiss after several dates? Hi rokcupid, i (female, mid 20s) have gone on three dates with a really sweet, attractive guy (male, early 30s) that i started talking to on okcupid about a month ago. Were both pretty reserved people, him more so than me it seems (i asked him out and asked for a second date - he asked for.).